So went to the attorney for the consult yesterday, was originally told that we could both go in and discuss things together but turned out not to be true. So now it looks like I'm filing for divorce from him, which is backwards but I guess as an uncontested it doesn't matter and it saves $2k in the long wrong. Learned a lot, know where all we need to go from here, have come up with some solutions to problems that were baffling us before and of course have some new questions. But overall its getting started. Come first of July we will be starting this process and around mid to late September is when I am assuming it to be final.
This shit just got real!
